Every year, I get asked by one media outlet or another how to handle the office holiday party. This year, I decided to share the advice I and others provided to the Wall Street Journal last weekend:
“We spend so much time communicating on Blackberries and e-mail, the office party is a rare opportunity to really meet the people who work around you," I said. “Instead of overindulging in food or spending too much time at the open bar with your friends, try to speak with top-level executives you might not otherwise interact with and to make new contacts within the company. Take note of interesting people you meet at the party and then send them a hand-written holiday card or ask them to lunch.”
Added Susan RoAne, author of How to Work a Room: “Before the party do some research on the executives likely to be there, check the company Web site and read the newspaper. With the information fresh in your mind, mingle with as many people as possible. The small talk will lead to the big talk. Avoid too much work talk but use this informal setting to ask others how they began working at the company and for advice for someone new to the field.”
And what about gift giving at the office? Since managers typically make more money than their employees, traditionally only managers give gifts. But Marjorie Brody, president of Brody Professional Development, said that practice is changing, "especially for younger employees who see their boss as an adviser or teacher.” As every office has its own customs and culture, prepare early by asking co-workers and human resources employees about the company's policies and traditions. Ms. Brody cautions junior employees against giving anything too pricey, personal (such as perfume or lotion) or gifts with religious connotations.
Some thoughtful presents include a donation to a charity in your boss's name, a subscription to a favorite magazine or baked goods if you're on a tight budget. Regardless of the gift you give, "always be gracious when receiving a gift," I said. “If your boss or co-worker gives you a gift, it isn't necessary to reciprocate, but in all cases send a handwritten thank you card to show your appreciation.”
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